Love Without An Agenda
A raw and vulnerable share from my heart…
It’s a little long, but if you read to the end, I believe it’ll speak to yours. 💛
Whenever I tell people about Be Love Give Love®—that we’re all about spreading love and lighting up the world—their faces soften and they say, “Wow… we really need more of that.” And they’re right. We do need more love in this world. Most of us already know that love is the answer. But I can’t help but wonder… if we know it, what are we really doing with it? What are youdoing? What am I doing? If love truly is the answer, how are we shining it, spreading it, living it?
For a long time, I wasn’t. I was quick to judge. Quick to label. Quick to separate myself from people who didn’t believe, act, or live like me. I just followed what the world—and even religion—taught me to do: fit in, draw lines, stay “right.” But when I started getting still with God, He wrecked all of that in me.
I prayed, “Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to You, Lord.” And He took me seriously. He began showing me what real love looks like—the kind that’s wide and long and high and deep(Ephesians 3:18). I asked Him to help me understand that love, and He did—by exposing the judgment still hiding in my heart.
When I’d find myself judging someone—for their lifestyle, their language, their politics, their choices, their orientation—God would whisper, “My love covers that too.” Those words changed me. Because suddenly, I couldn’t stay distant anymore. Instead of turning away, I wanted to lean in. I wanted to hear their story. Not to fix them. Not to prove I was right. Just to understand. Just to love. With no agenda—only love.
And that’s when my heart began to shift. I started to love the ones I used to avoid—the outcasts, the misunderstood, the ones the world calls “different.” And I realized: many of them are walking through incredible pain. Pain that only love can reach.
What if we stopped judging and started getting curious? What if, instead of saying you’re wrong, I’m right, we asked, “What happened to your heart?” Love doesn’t mean agreement. It means compassion. It means seeing beyond what’s visible and trusting that God sees what we can’t—the heart.
There’s such freedom when love becomes your first response. Freedom from offense. Freedom from fear. Freedom from the need to be right. Because when love flows freely through you, you stop being afraid to draw near to anyone.
That’s what Be Love Give Love® is all about—awakening hearts to that kind of freedom. The kind of freedom that comes when you let God heal every part of your heart and show you how to truly love. When that happens… wow. You’ll see what I’ve seen—
that Love really does conquer all.
If this message stirs something deep within you, I believe it’s because God is awakening hearts everywhere to remember what real love looks like.
Now more than ever, I feel called to speak this message—to share stories, truth, and hope that awaken hearts to love again. Our world is desperate for healing, unity, and understanding… and I believe this message carries the spark that can ignite it.
If you sense that this message is needed in your church, school, business, or organization, reach out. Let’s spread the wildfire of love together.
✨ The wildfire has begun… come be part of it. ✨
— Coach Abby
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